| |  True self-confidence is characterize people who know his selves, accept his benefits but also drawbacks. They designate targets, which are able to achieve, building on its strengths. Do not build your career and life on weak foundations.
Self-confidence depends on us. From how to collect life, the impact on our lives to others, our self-esteem. We decide whether we will become a grey mouse or miss school smile ... Just simply we are not conscious of it. How many times you did not came to some nice-looking boy or beauty? How many times you lost the chance to show yourselves and your talents? Have you ever think about why this is? And what do you think about this? But you have nothing to lose, and a lot of to win ... There is nothing to afraid! By the first step, you are doing a very good impression, we show that we are able to do many things.
Self-confidence depends of our self-accept, or rather depends on whether it is positive. A person who has positive self-accept, accept his selves in all - all of their advantages and disadvantages. He does not be afraid to go public and show: Here I am - be firm, honest, popular and appreciated. What is the self-honesty? So very much. If you are and say what we want to say is that it does not shy the show to present their views and, if necessary, to defend them. Known mi II year student of psychology says: "With confidence we are more determined, self confident, consistent, hard. People know each other going forward, like a tank."
The awareness that we are worth something gives us self-confidence. When we see someone's future, not wondering as we go on "for him" because we are not missing anything;] Such persons are more successful in life. They have no trouble finding work, better and more quickly establish contacts with people. These people have more confidence. Asked what factors make sure that we are together, the above-mentioned student answers: "I think we can differentiate personality characteristics of people mentally weak - that is, those who are easily influenced, often do not have your opinion of those who are leaders. Yes, so far as personality characteristics or gives us the strength that can be described as self-confidence.
Often compare to those with ideal dimensions, which are rounded, where and how much must be said. Often ask themselves these questions: "Why can not I have such a figure?". Do not wondered why? My informant explained to us just this phenomenon: "It depends on who is compared to the models and models. For me the beauty of emancipation is a form of artifice, and something almost worthy of contempt. But the man is a being who is intent on achieving perfection, and in many human convictions models and models are models of excellence and beauty. "
In my opinion it is a matter of ego, and I know every person is inherently egocentric, or a person who likes to stand out, be unique, unprecedented, to have something that others do not. This article can give you is pointless, but I think it's worthwhile to realize that who we are and what you may be having some myself ...
Author: Justyna Pietraszek
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