Friendship... first associations that cross my mind when I hear this word are: sincerity, honesty, responsibility, loyalty, heroism. It is value that is seldom under discussion today. Friendship pay homage other values, other priority are important. People don't have time for friendship, be with other person, for talking, for common spending time. People forgot about this, what is really important and beautiful.
Modern world promote consumption, so nothing for free. We rise among the media's stream of words, so friendship is seldom under discussion, because friendship is obsolete in modern world.
Entering the adulthood we meet a lot of problems. Sometimes our parents don't have time for us. A girl cheated. Boy turned out to be a womanizer and he wanted only sex.
Everybody faces cruel reality and they want to have a close friend with whom they can share their problems. A real friend is like the ground wet of our tears. The real friend always wants to listen to us, tries to understand us and give us a shoulder to cry on. He/she can give the advice and when it is needed or criticizes our behavior.
Everybody should look for a real friendship. It is not easy to find it as it seems to be. We should distinguish sincere friendship from this friendship which has hide purpose. After choosing the real friend you can trust him/her because he/she is the basis and foundation of your friendship.
Author: Magdalena Tor
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