 The young people know too much about life, want to be older, so consider that this is the indicator to adulthood. And this is a big mistake, because it leads them to sink. Drugs, cigarettes, alcohol, truancy, sex ... and what's next? ? of teenagers later are ashamed of doing such things or, worse end their lifes for example, dying of lung cancer. We escape from such problems and say that we do not entered into a habit that does not concern us.
Some consider it all for the best, right way. Others talk about it, as a single. Young people want inflict themselves harm by very stupid reason, ruin life, injure people close to them... Every second teenager begins his habit. The help and our own initiative is needed, to look objectively at our own mistakes and then maybe there will be for us the door to meet the dreams of expanding horizons.
• Do not drink? Do not smoke? I do not know you!
These words the most often are heard by "no addicted" teenagers. Unwillingness to participate in events and alcoholic assemblies behind the shop near school, to smoke is one of the most common causes of rejection and violence. "Leaders" are able to unscrupulously call no addicted' names, insult, humiliate, and this in the eyes of those who are afraid to resist and to express their own opinion. They just prefer to adapt to the "strongest" than have some bruises.
A friend recently offered me a fag. I firmly but politely refused. I was assertive. He said nothing, and went out. And next break I was dragged to the toilet and they did a" flush. ". Later they threw me on the wall and compelled to drink half liter of pure vodka. I could hardly be kept on the legs, I lost orientation. Roster teacher found me and immediately brought to headmaster. I did not have to be explained. I was afraid to complain of those who did it. They would revenge themselves on me even more. Headmaster suspended me for three months! "
L... told me that story. He had to choose between justice and his own health and he chose what is more important to him. I know the student, which is the only of its entire class, who never had any stimulants in the mouth. She didn't smoke, didn't drink, and said "I have no intention to do that only in order to have friends. My class is as is, but I will not force anyone in the liking me. And I have quite a lot of friends where I live. And they understand me. Respect. I know that I can count on them. "
Note that the selection and final decision is up to you.
Author: Magdalena Tor
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